What to Do If You Don't Know What You Want

Do you know deep down there’s so much more to life, you feel it to your core that there’s more to you, you feel your magic just dying to come out and show itself, and you know you’re capable of so much more, but beyond that, you don’t have any specifics around what you want or how to get there? You, my friend, are not alone! 

Standard Goal Setting Isn't for Everyone!

Most of us are so busy reacting to life and functioning on autopilot, that we don’t really take the time to examine what’s not working well for us or what we really want or make time to do the work on the fears, doubts, inferiority, and other bullshit that fogs our minds and keeps us stuck. 

Clarity and awareness are HUGE for building confidence and living life on your terms (it’s so important that these are in my signature coaching methodology).  Getting super clear on what you want, why you want it, where you are now, and cultivating self-awareness around any ways you might be holding yourself back, will unlock so many answers and help you see a clear path ahead.  Without knowing what you’re working toward, it can be SO challenging to keep moving forward.

Doing what you love and aligning with your purpose or long-term vision gives you more energy, passion, and focus for those things AND for life.  Getting clear helps you know yourself better and maximize your time by intentionally focusing on the things that fill you up, and giving less attention to the things that drain you. 

SO, if you really want to find out what you want, become self-aware of what’s holding you back, and build sustainable confidence, it’s time to get really honest with yourself!

A great way to kind of reverse-engineer the process, is instead of starting with what you WANT (since you don’t know yet), start with how you want to FEEL.  Really get into this, visualize, drop into your body, and experience it.  Get super clear on the things you want to feel when you’re living your dream.  Do you want to feel abundant?  Free? Confident?  Fulfilled?  Energized? Wealthy?  Like your life has more ease and flow?

Once you’re clear on how you want to feel, NOW you can begin to ask yourself what in your life currently makes you feel this way.  Which areas do NOT and cause you to feel the opposite?  What leaves you feeling depleted and what leaves you energized?  What did you like as a kid, what are you naturally good at, what drives you, what do you genuinely enjoy, and where are you pretending or lying to yourself?  Really get to know yourself, and reflect. 

From HERE you can start piecing together what you really want, and once you know this, you can start bridging the gap from where you are to there. 

There’s so much more to clarity that is seriously life-changing.  If you want to dig in but it’s overwhelming, I got you.  Reach out to get started!

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Do feelings like fear, inadequacy, or self-doubt hold you back from fully living? Do you feel like you're not living to your potential? Are you ready to feel more confident and live life on your terms?

You're in the right place!

I help people reimagine what's possible, clear away what's no longer serving them, turn their obstacles into breakthroughs, and see their past as the catalyst for growth, so they can make empowered decisions to create new results in their lives and become fiercely confident!

Schedule a free consultation to see how I can support YOU!

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